Softcover In Loving Memory: A Child’s Journey to Understanding a Funeral and Starting the Grieving Process For ages 4-10. "8.5x8.5" full color, softcover book. Authors Lacie Brueckner and Katherine Pendergast. About the book: The coauthor Lacie Brueckner has been a funeral director serving families since 2005. She has always taken a special interest in meeting the needs of children during the funeral process. She has found that most children want to feel included in the funeral too. In this story a young girl named Harper has lost her grandma. Through gentle words and soft illustrations Harper learns what a funeral looks like and how she can participate. Harper and her family also take you through her journey of starting the grieving process. A child who has lost someone near and dear to them can learn from young Harper experience.