Horny Goat Weed Herb, Dried Herbs, Food Grade Herbs, Herbs and Spices, Loose Leaf Herbs So, over time the honey moon stage is over or your just both getting older and have got caught up on lives every day routine and the spark in your relationship has gone from roaring fire to smoke. Its ok, your not alone. Just don't let it kill the love between you both. Sex/Love is a healthy act that the body needs. Don't deprive your self. I know your saying "I just don't want it anymore" Trust me you need it. You both do. Over time it can get hard to get aroused by your love one, especially since you have gotten to the point of one brushing their teeth and the other on the pot at the same time in the same bathroom. lol. Date night is needed!