This is a hand carved candle approximately 9 inches tall and 5 inches across the bottom. You don't have to get married to enjoy this set. It makes a beautiful centerpiece! Choose up to three colors to coordinate with your decor or event. This set is the perfect accent for your wedding day. I recommend the oil lamp insert option to protect the candle for enjoyment for years to come. Light before your ceremony to adjust the flame as you wish then trim off the burned area. I suggest that it be trimmed to approximately 1/8" but you may want a higheror lower flame. You can adjust by trimming or pulling the wick through the rim.If you choose the wick, trim a circle around the wick and peel out the acrylic coating to make lighting easier.