Find Love for Men oil is a sweet, spicy & manly fragrance for straight men wanting to attract a lady. Anoint the heart, neck, armpits or anywhere you apply perfume. Focus herb: Vanilla bean or Ginseng Find Love for Men is made on the Friday before the full Moon. When I first formulated this oil, I had been potioning up a storm for two weeks, beginning at the new Moon, getting ready to introduce my whole line at an arts festival. Consequently my "nose bones" were completely fried. I couldn't smell a thing. But I had to have something for the gents! So I plodded along. I assembled the ingredients I knew would work, and started adding them drop by drop. At one point I added just one more drop of cinnamon, and a warm flush sensation filled umm, my pelvic area. "Yummy sexy man!" it said. I was done! It seems even though my nose couldn't smell anything, my ovaries still could. You can use this oil as a personal perfume, to anoint pink or red candles (use two candles at a time for love spells), in your bath water, or to fix mojos or love talismans or jewelry. It is considered unethical to target a specific person with love magick, since that would be a subtle form of mind control or slavery. Also, you improve your odds by making your intention to attract many suitable partners to choose from, instead of just one person who might just not be that into you. All of my Find Love formulations are also appropriate to continue to use during a relationship, to keep the romance fresh and growing. For more potions of Love and Lust and Friendship. read this blog article.