Used to calm stressful situations, ease hurt feelings and create a safe and warm environment. This formula is said to keep wandering spouses home and keep away mistresses if monogamy is desired. Also said to calm Unruly teenagers, toddlers and other forms of offspring. Just to name a few prayers, this candle works well with Pslams 45 and 46 for peace between a husband and wife, psalms 61 when moving into a new home, psalms 140 to help with a marriage or for a difficult spouse. Traditionally used when a woman wishes to have the upper hand in the home environment. It is said a peaceful home is a home where the woman is in charge.   How to Burn Calamus and Honey candles   Thanks so much for your purchase, our candles are dressed with oils, herbs, curios and prayed over by people practicing a variety of magical traditions including but not limited to Santeria, Southern Rootwork and traditional Witchcraft.