About Off The Record

Hi! I'm Kate, the founder of Off The Record, and I've spent over a decade studying what makes people truly connect. With 10+ years in brand-side communications, I became obsessed with one question: why do so many relationships stay surface-level, even between people who genuinely care about each other? The answer isn't chemistry. It's the quality of questions being asked. Off The Record is built on that expertise. Each card uses a deliberate two-layer structure — an opener to establish comfort, followed by a deeper follow-up engineered to build real understanding. This isn't a game designed to entertain. It's a tool designed to change how people relate to each other — in gift-ready, retail-optimized packaging with a magnetic closure. The World Health Organization has declared loneliness a public health crisis. Your customers feel it; not as a trend, but as a quiet ache. The relationships they've built over decades deserve more than surface-level catch-ups. Off The Record gives them a reason to go deeper. Since 2023, we've deepened 36-year marriages, bridged decade-long estrangements, helped founders land major partnerships, and earned the endorsement of Jay Shetty, CBS News, Today, and Buzzfeed. What's more: we're 100% women-owned. 50% margins. No minimums. Ships in 1–2 days. Every stockist gets a shout-out to our online community, so that they come support us both! Thanks for your faith in us. Together, let's help your customers be happier, less lonely people! Read their story